The biggest thing you can do to improve your pictures is to take them yourself, don't let the camera do it for you. That is, shoot in manual, including the flash. It is really not hard, it just seems daunting.
I completely agree, having a FULL MANUAL capable camera is critical. However whenever I mention my wish for a digital but otherwise MANUAL ONLY camera I get beat up to smithereens, like what sacrilege am I saying? I want a Nikonos III with a digital sensor. The shutter would activate the camera sensor eliminating even the need for an ON/OFF button. I would take a live view/review but that would require a ON/OFF switch, but could live with an optical VF with mask. So, I agree with you fully, so my question is why do we have cameras that we spend all of our time wading through multiple menus to trick the camera into doing what we want it to do instead of what it wants to do? Those of us who owned film RF or SLR cameras learned how to focus a camera (quickly) and with the Nikonos there was something called zone focus or simply prefocus. The only controls needed are focus, shutter speed, aperture and a shutter button. And if there is a built in meter then an ISO selector and add an ON/OFF switch for live view and image review. Like WTH with cameras with 28 controls and ten menus each with multiple sub menus? This is why our poor OP is flustered as much as anything. And it is why camera photography is dying. Let me make my photo please Mr. Sony, Nikon, whoever! I want an authentic expression of my vision, not a computer chip interpretation thereof.
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