Well, we got out for some more diving this weekend and I got to test out some of the suggestions I read here. As a thank you for your suggestions, here's my follow up.
I went with the regulator necklace for the back-up and it worked nice. I had to tie it a bit shorter than I have pictured, so that it was tucked near my chin. I also realized the problem of using a hose that was too long on the back up reg. I've got it tucked under my arm until I buy a short hose for it. Additionally, the hose on my primary is now just a bit too short. It works okay with the braided flex hose that I bought, but I still can't look forward very well (at least when I've got myself trimmed right). Definitely need a longer hose here for the long term.
The bolt snap worked perfectly for my wife's console! It stayed put and she didn't even need to unclip it to read. Her octo still detached once on each of our dives, so we'll either need to secure it better using one of the excellent suggestions here, or switch her over to a regulator necklace as well.
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