When I worked in the field.. after a fatality I could pretty much guarantee a number of the friends and family would ask me these two questions...
Was **** alone?
Did **** suffer?
Those questions were so consistent and the reactions to the answers were also consistent. When so many people ask the same questions.. IMHO it indicates the answers are important to the loved ones coping with their loss and finding closure.
After the death occurrs it is no longer about the deceased their issues are over.... it is all about the loved ones and helping them deal with their issues.
I would rather my loved ones who do not dive or understand my passion for it had the comfort of someone being able to offer them some answers that helped rather than made their pain worse.
Solo Divers have a right to make their choice.. but I suggest that anyone who makes that choice discuss this in depth with their loved ones so if they ever have to face the worst.. you have done what you could to ease their pain!
Was **** alone?
Did **** suffer?
Those questions were so consistent and the reactions to the answers were also consistent. When so many people ask the same questions.. IMHO it indicates the answers are important to the loved ones coping with their loss and finding closure.
After the death occurrs it is no longer about the deceased their issues are over.... it is all about the loved ones and helping them deal with their issues.
I would rather my loved ones who do not dive or understand my passion for it had the comfort of someone being able to offer them some answers that helped rather than made their pain worse.
Solo Divers have a right to make their choice.. but I suggest that anyone who makes that choice discuss this in depth with their loved ones so if they ever have to face the worst.. you have done what you could to ease their pain!