They do make some silicone based lubricants and powders, but in my experience it can make it more difficult to get the glue to adhere when you go to replace your seals.
I use pure unscented talk on mine, and end up replacing them every two years or so. (used most of the winter for work)
Storage is one of the biggest concerns to get good seal life, keep your suit away from heat, electric motors (ozone), out of sunlight, properly folded and completely dry.
I have the best luck with the Viking pro seals (they are a bit thicker and tapered not bellows style)