What kind of dives are you doing where she can stay down longer without going into deco? Is her interest in actually going beyond ItT, to take AN/DP?
To me, doubles aren't that useful unless you're either diving pretty shallow (thus, very long NDLs), OR you are doing decompression dives.
Currently we're realtively shallow, so long NDLs in the quarry or on the shallow wrecks of Lake Michigan. She has, however, pleasantly suprised me with an interest in learning AN/DP as well as getting both of us onto an eCCR thanks to the TDI Mission Tech demo event; A pair of SF2's will be in the future, I'm sure, once funds allow.
We are both wanting some deeper/extended dives on some other wrecks, as well as for travel (assuming equipment is available). For instance, she specifically wants to drive down to Pensacola and dive the Oreskeny and some of the wrecks off the Carolina coasts. We've had the opportuity to not only meet but sometimes hang out with some industry greats and it just gets her excited to do more. After talking to them, she is greatly inspired the women in the dive industry such as Jill Heinerth and Marissa Eckert (Waltman). We also have several dive friends that do more tech dives, including deep wrecks, caves, and rebreathers, whom we would like to be able to dive with in the future.
We will both begin our year of divemaster training/candidacy in January (dual SDI/PADI), probably knock out our SDI-Solo as well in April. From there, add TDI Intro to Tech, AN/DP, Cavern, and Intro to Cave somewhere along the line depending on time (we're in no hurry), and progress from there. Also, since we are down in Mexico every year around that same time, we have interest in doing the Cave Camp down in Tulum if we can manage getting certified ahead of time. But these are goals, and certainly a lot of practice dives need to be done in between. Not expecting to get it all done at once; and yes, drysuit is an eventuality.
Bottom line is that I have the extra tanks. I just picked up the doubles manifolds, valves, and bands (she doesn't know that part yet...Thinking setting up the tanks and putting them under the tree for Christmas). I just need to get it assembled, hence the original question of AL80s or CF80s for the time being.
Most responses both on this board and privately are leaning towards the Neutral 80s.