Never the less I still can remember how I felt staring at that guage and knowing I should leave the instructor and the other student and head back. I knew this and yet I stayed where I was, and if something happened I think it would have been my fault, I wasn't tied to my instructor after all.
I guess there are no right answers here, no concrete path to avoid these types of incidents. And I suspect this sort of thing is common, and yet people survive, so how much of an issue is it? Enough not to ignore I think, but maybe I am over reacting some...
This is a wonderful example of the dilemma of the inexperienced diver. I remember the feeling when I gave my DM the mental finger on only my 32nd dive and started an ascent without him. It took a lot of courage for me, supposedly an adult, educated, independent thinker, to override the decision of the DM, who in reality was probably an intern who had been poorly trained and who almost certainly knew less than I did about diving, even though I was a relative newcomer to the sport.