I think many of the OP's questions would be unnecessary if they undertook some specific deco/technical training, rather than a hot-potch 'light deco for recreational divers' certification. If such fundamental questions are still unanswered following the training, then the training is obviously not sufficient for the task intended.
Putting aside the vagaries of specific rescue techniques (re-inserting regs etc), what I was taught (my training didn't force me to seek answers online) was that:
Actually, I already have my "light deco for recreational diver" certification, and initially the post was in "basic scuba question".
I'm training for something that would be something like "depth and autonomy for recreational diver".
In addition, This such fundamental question have got different answer as I've already indicate.
Each organization, and each diver have a slightly (or not so slightly) answer.
I've got multiples answer from multiples person (online, my instructors, other instructor from the same organization, other instructor from other organization, books, ...).
Personnally I prefer to see all sides of a coin (different thought, different training, differents experiences) to make my choices, and to not rely only on my training with only a few instructors (which are humans, as all of us).
In this way, It's easier to me to comprehend all the involved risk, the possibility of such procedures, their limits.
1. You don't risk making yourself a second victim when conducting a rescue, as that only stretches rescue resources and can jeopardise the survival of the original victim. IMHO, ethically,if you do opt to take such risks to conduct a rescue, you should also be committed to forgoing later treatments should necessary resources be insufficient and cause conflict between your needs and the original victims.
2. You don't conduct in-water recompression, unless such treatments are supported by the full and extensive planning and logistical support needed for safe outcome. You shouldn't hypothesis about in-water recompression treatment, or consider its use, unless you are fully educated about what is involved and why.
3. You should dive in full awareness of missed/omitted deco procedures and apply them intelligently if required.
4. Opting to deliberately miss/omit deco to rescue a casualty, with the intention of rectifying the deco immediately afterwards, is very situationally dependent. It is not a safe option - so better options should be planned/prepared for in advance.
5. 'Light' deco is not a misnomer for 'ok to skip deco'. If you opt to skip deco, you should only do on the basis that you stand a high chance of getting DCI.
6. There are many options that can be instituted to ensure that you have adequate support during a deco dive - which will cater for this scenario. The use of surface and in-water support, along with corresponding procedures, eliminates the need for a diver with deco obligations to take excessive personal risks. If your 'toolbox' doesn't include the knowledge needed to implement such options, then your training is lacking for the dives you are doing.
I agree with all the points, but to some extends :
5- i don't see light deco as "ok to skip" but as "little risk to get a DCS, and really little risk to get a DCS wich couldn't be treated totally".
(and I will add that decos doesn't prevent totally the DCS, but diminish greatly the risk to have one, and the gravity of it).
So If on the other side, I see my best friend dying, I wouldn't have too much thought getting some "little" dcs to save him (and pray that no DCS will be declared in the brain or other really sensitive area).
6- Sometimes training and/or planification are not sufficient (because we have gone beyond our limits, our training, murphy law, ...).
We can look away, but theses things could happen, and once it's enough.