AfterDark
Contributor
Your post: "Many good points being made and possibilities brought up. Question: Where was her buddy?
Now I'm as or more guilty than anyone of not being a good buddy in that I drift off and do my own thing. That said I've had buddies that just will not let me do that. Every time I think "check on X" there he'd be right behind, above and to my right, every time! It was almost annoying. A much better buddy than I. Darn shame she didn't have a buddy like that. "
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It certainly reads as trying to blame the buddy.
I think most of us feel that her staying with her buddy(ies) might have resulted in a different outcome, but whatever happened, it was not a lack of a buddy that killed her on that dive. A buddy might have been able to help, certainly, but she chose herself to abandon the buddy team, and we really do not know what it was that actually caused her death. Everything is still speculation, projection, and looking for answers that we may never find.
No sense taking this thread into the mud, and calling each other names, which is not showing respect for Quero, the others involved, or each other.
Well then a question is pointing blame? You must live in a very confused world. Tell me when someone posts that they x is to blame for y is that a question to you? I don't speak or post in riddles or code, if I was blaming I'd have used the word and made the accusation so they'd be no question.
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in reading here about her seeming determination to do things her way and not accept suggestions, I wonder if she (Quero) would have chosen to just dive solo if others had said they were uncomfortable in diving with her ?
She was found alone, solo. Seems she made an unplanned solo.