That may well be true but most people that give up their dive, just to follow their buddy around and watch them take photos are usually paid babysitters or, possibly, complete novices who are afraid of separation by more than a meter. That does not describe a normal buddy system, IMHO.
Yeah. Regardless of who could (or should) have been doing something differently, there was a disconnect in the buddy protocol. I would be very reticent to assign blame for that though, since these kinds of breakdowns can be complex and may not stem from one individual cause or one individual's role.
I'm happy for Afterdark that he's able to find buddies who are willing to babysit him but it wouldn't have worked I this case. Marcia's buddy told me that during their first check out dives that they stuck quite close and that Marcia requested after that dive to keep more distance. This leads me to believe, in combination with her habit of "drifting off" that the dynamic around the buddy protocols weren't as simple as deciding whether or not to "stick like a remora". It was also something that appears (now I'm speculating) not to have been completely clarified. Not to everyone's satisfaction at any rate.
Don't forget that this particular team of divers didn't have much experience diving together. A period of adjustment and feeling each other out is often necessary when diving with new buddies and during this period of adjustment one of the members of the team got separated from the group. The goal in this thread should be to try investigating the take-home message in that. Not to decide who is guilty.
To that end, what I see is that
- the divers didn't seem to be on the same page with respect to sticking together
- discussing that openly (speculation on my part) may have been complicated due to not wanting to step on any long toes
- a lot was done during the dive to try to keep the team together which was ultimately not 100% effective
- the buddy separation happened in shallow water at the end of the dive but the team still took it very seriously and started searching almost immediately. (to be perfectly honest I'm not sure if I would have responded so quickly given that there was no reason to suspect a problem).
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What I saw posted was 26 lbs plus a steel tank. Not sure on the plate.
What I understand is that the number 26 was mentioned but not confirmed. I believe it was an estimation.
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