As I mentioned before, my experience with dry suits is dated and I never used a tri-laminate one. However the last picture really catches my eye. If I saw a diver in a thick wetsuit, on a deep dive with the BC filled to that extent, I would think nothing of it. However, it is my understanding that the whole benefit of the incompressible suit material is that your buoyancy does not change with depth... assuming you keep the suit inflated to a uniform amount at various depths....
So if my understanding is correct..would not this situation (with the BC seemingly full at depth) elicit a response from a reasonably observant and more experienced dry suit divers along the lines of: "why the heck are you wearing so much lead?"
That would seem to be more useful input than "hand holding" in 18 ft of water. Is this a red flag or am I off base?