BigJetDriver69:Michelle,
I realize that some of the folks are having a little good natured tease about the subject.
I would like to complement you on (1) recognizing the problem, and (2) dealing with it in an adult manner.
Sharks are to be respected. They are animals in the wild, and we are out there with them.
By the same token, if sharks acted as Hollywood depicts them, I and many others would not be writing to you.
I have been in the Galapagos, with a top cover of Hammerheads swirling around so thick they blocked much of the light at times. This while being down on the rocks with Galapagos (Bull) sharks swirling around us. I am not exaggerating in the slightest.
The Hammerheads paid us no attention at all, and the Galapagos sharks came in to investigate, found that we were not very interesting, and went about their business.
Another time, I was diving in Belize with a friend, and we were snorkelling beside the boat in the shallows while off-gassing between dives. The boat crew was feeding the sting-rays, and we were watching them eat.
Suddenly, I realized that it was indeed possible to shout clearly through a snorkel. An eight-foot Gray Reef shark had cruised by her, gently nosed the stingrays out of the way, and was snacking on the bait. She said, very loudly and clearly: "Holy (bad word)!"
We continued to watch as the shark and the rays had a great lunch! It was indeed a great experience!
I do not mean to make light of the subject. Again, they are to be respected. But they are beautiful creatures, and I hope that some day you will find an appreciation for them.
Sincerely,
Rob Davie
Thank you for taking the original post serious and trying to help. I also have an unwarrented fear of sharks. It causes some anxiety on dives so its nice to hear of your experiences. I have never thought of sharks as being "mean". But it is their world we visit. It would seem Im much more afraid of them when Im on land. All the hype and stuff. Once underwater I dont think about it. I dunno. Mabe you have some good sites on sharks and shark behavior you could share with us scardy cats? To help us understand.