Wow! Where to begin? I'm from NJ (way south of where you are speaking about). After I got involved a lot more into diving did I find out that I truly stumbled into a good dive shop. We can all sit here and argue about agencies, independent Instructors (of which I am proud to be one) and LDS. The truth is, most of us never really do any research. If there is interest in diving, and we drive past the LDS sign enough times, sooner or later we'll go in to see what's it's about. Like I said, I did great. I know lots of others who didn't. You obviously have great perseverance; hopefully you’ll find the combination that you are looking for. You might want to look into some of the local dive clubs to see who gets high marks on treating their customer’s right.