Having read through the last post by the OP, I feel confident in saying that, morally, this mess belongs in the Pub.
So, you're buying the first round!
Maker's Mark on the rocks please!
markm
---------- Post added June 26th, 2014 at 04:10 PM ----------
Hey Modustollens,
You wrote in post #33: "Are you claiming that ought statements or moral claims are merely an expression of feelings?"
A simpleton, such as myself, would consider Dr. Lecter to be a moral relativist or situational ethicist (my consideration is just a guess based on reading his posts--I don't know him).
Also, I enjoyed reading your posts--lots of fun!
markm
---------- Post added June 26th, 2014 at 04:32 PM ----------
Anybody here have a climbing background? I'm thinking of alpine climbs, or multi pitch or multi day mountain adventures. the kind where you rope up with someone and trust them with your life for the duration of the climb.
It seems that there are some commonalities, but also a lot of differences. Things like the difference between objective and subjective risk, commitment to the other person (does an insta-buddy merit less commitment than a long time friend?), and communication skills.
I've done very few dives, so i don't have much to offer. but I will say I was shocked at some of the behavior of the insta-buddies I was with, especially the ones that dove with a camera! I don't think anyone asked me how much air I had on a dive, although I tried to ask each one once during a dive, about halfway through. This made me consider myself to be essentially diving alone in a group. I had mixed feeling about that and it was one of the reasons I tried not to go much beyond 20 meters.
I am going someplace new in a few weeks, and I expect a different culture and different attitudes. I'm just not sure what.
Anyway, just some random thoughts.
Hello Blyslv,
I enjoyed your post. It resonated with me because I had similar experiences as a new diver. I was trained on the buddy system and assumed it had more merit than it actually does.
I had a first stage start to crack-open at Anacapa Island (literally, it cracked open). My insta-buddy recognized my problem as both of my 2nd stages were belching air. He gave the boat signal to me and then split the scene. I made it to the surface with plenty of air and swam back to the boat. No harm, no foul.
My wife is an SOB diver (Same Ocean Buddy). She likes anyone to lead but her, and then she proceeds to lead the dive from behind.
I met an old guy (older than me) while diving the Yukon. He told me that I was dangerous to him, and that he would be safer diving solo. I asked him, how do you know I am dangerous---you don't know me. He said, "because I don't know you!" He had redundant gear and an SMB. He was probably safer by himself.
You're not the only one who has realized this conundrum.
markm