You mentioned you had a wife. Are you willing to move elsewhere to further your career? Is she ok with that?
Commercial Diving (or underwater welding) would call on you to be away from your family alot, but it could be a good path for you. There is a school in Houston (the whole reason this team is in Houston is Commercial diving school offering underwater diver certifications in ndt, and nde training.) for commercial diving. iirc, there may be schools in Ca and one in NJ.
Did you already apply for the Coast Guard and that is how you know they won't take you?
Good luck
Ty.Yes i have tried and was turned down due to my past possesion charge,though i never asked about waivers and it was never mentioned.I have been checking into diff diving schools like the one you linked since i posted this earlier today.Would it still be in good interest for me to get my diving cert first?Or would that be taught when i sign up for the class?I figured if i could get some diving certs and some overall diving experience first it would open my options a bit more.
Somebody also mentioned working for a museum stuff like that and i figured if i took a class on underwater photography then got a few degrees in marine science and biology it would increase my chances,though im still looking into rescue diving first.The only diving school in my area i can find is padi,so im prob gonna go through that program first then weigh my options.