and both you ladies think it ok to just "chat" on the phone about non diving related issues with someone you do not dive with? just trying to get a perspective on things
thanks
Personally I don't have a problem with him chatting with anyone. Jealousy is a waste of energy for me, I would rather focus on what I need to do to keep our communication lines open. Hubby and I are both flirts but we always go home together, I realize not every relationship is like that. You have to work with what you have but keep communicating.
Some people like to share what is going on in their lives with other people, I'm one of those. Hubby gets the "bored stare" when I start to tell the same story for the third or fourth time, especially when it's a story about something we did together. I have a tendency to forget I've told the story so I call my one of my dive buddies to abuse with the repetition when I feel the story urge coming on
Do you know about these calls because he's open about it or because you feel a need to spy on him and discovered them? When the calls go "underground" then you have a problem. Good communication and not acting jealous will keep things above board.
Ber :lilbunny: