Applying a similar philosophy to your personal equipment, this might suggest carrying a pony bottle might not be as good a practice UNLESS you already had the knowledge, skill and discipline to not get yourself into a situation where you needed it without something somewhat unusual happening.
Any additional comments, particularly from those with deco training?
You have to ask what the pony is for, though.
Is the pony being used to provide with redundancy in case of an equipment failure?
or
Is the pony being used to provide an additional gas supply because someone doesn't know how much gas they actually need to do a given dive.
IMHO, the latter is completely the wrong reason to carry a pony. With the former, you need to think about worst case - an equipment failure occurs in the last minute of your planned bottom time and you have to do your entire ascent including deco stops using the pony (ignoring presence of buddies).
Most pony bottles are too small to enable you to do this - so you have created another problem by carrying, over-confidence to allow you to push your dives times without actually having the skills, knowledge or equipment to do so.
I believe that pony bottles have their place as "emergency ascent bottles" for dives within recreational limits - even then, anything smaller than 30 cu ft is really pushing it. For dives involving decompression, twin tanks are a much better option.
The two problems with twin tanks, though, are:
1. An increased level of complexity and new set of skills required to use safely
2. You are no carrying enough gas to seriously hurt yourself unless you dive a plan and stick to it....
Whilst it may sound harsh, I think the OP is the kind of diver who would end up doing just that.... hurt themselves badly by not being able to stick to a dive plan.