Meyr,
To answer some of your questions the housings for the E-PL3 and E-PM1 both have the 67mm thread on the front of the new port. If you stack two inon close-up lenses or add the +5/10 Reefnet close-up lens it is unlikely that the on board focusing lights will fall on you subject. I have a ring flash where the light is in the same position and the thick +10 Reefnet close-up lens blocks the light. Same with the stacked Inon 165-M67's. The cameras on board strobe has a guide number of 5 Meters at ISO100, the diffuser will reduce the light by another 1/2 to 1 stop of light and the port will block the light when shooting anything close to the port, E.G. macro.
By comparison the Inon S-2000 and Sea & Sea YS-01 have guide numbers of 20 meters at ISO 100.