Se7en
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Northeastwrecks once bubbled...
It wouldn't prevent me from diving with you. For a price. After you signed the waiver and demonstrated some basic skills that were entirely lacking on the dive you described.
Divers advance by obtaining proper training and by mentoring.
Hypocrisy at it's finest. First you say that you'd only dive with RavenC after she signs a waiver and pays you.
Then you tell her the only way she can advance is with some mentoring. Which you are patently adverse to giving. (Mentoring DOES NOT involve being paid)
So how are new divers supposed to progress?
I think you are being a bit harsh here - what happened was some new divers, including RavenC, had a dive where some stuff went wrong. In general they handled it OK, but RavenC at least realises that it could have been handled a whole heap better, and that her training was probably a bit lacking.
This is a good thing. Three relative newcomers from minimal training have done a couple of pretty simple dives and learnt something from them. Perhaps if RavenC had been diving with a more experienced mentor, the problem with the regs would have been less stressful - but as it was she handled it OK with the knowledge she had.
Now the downside.
RavenC - either you have forgotten some of your OW training, or your instructor was negligent.
You should know that you can disconnect the low pressure hose to your BC without problems. In fact, you should have it drilled into you that this is the first step to take if your inflator starts freeflowing and inflating your BC. Anyone who does not instinctively do this has no business being underwater - an uncontrolled ascent caused by a stuck inflator is about the third worst thing that can hapen to you on OC scuba.
You should also know how to breath from a free flowing reg by having it half out of your mouth, and been able to adapt this to breathing from your primary second stage - but given the choice I'd prefer to do as you did and breath of my buddies alternate for the ascent.
A suggestion for instructing buddies on which air source to take in an OOA: I always tell buddies that if they are out of air they should take the reg from my mouth - for all the usual reasons. However, I always make note of where and how their alternate is secured and would take this if required - snatching their primary may be a bit much for a stressed new diver. However, what I find is that divers will thing about this, and will often start offering their primary on an OOA drill of their own accord. So instead of telling them to do something, you have let them see a better way, and choose it of their own accord.
On the regs issue - get someone with a clue to show you how to dismantle and reassemble 2nd stages properly. They are pretty simple things, and even being able to pull the cover off a reg and check the diaphram would perhaps have saved you from this problem. Buy your own regs, and get shown how they work - makes it more likely that they will be in good nick, and makes you much more comfortable with them.
RavenC - there are a lot of reasonably experienced divers around who are quite happy to do some diving with relative newbies, and provide a bit of mentoring. Not everyone has the same attitude as Northeastwrecks. But be a little mindful that being a mentor can be a bit more stressful than diving with a peer, so sometimes they will want to chill out without worrying about you. Exactly the same as you were happy to lead some rank beginners on a couple of dives, but would be more relaxed with more experienced buddies. It cuts all ways.
Se7en