RavenC once bubbled...
You are correct. I am not interested in half-a$$ anything that is why I am putting together the gear I am.
Sorry. Renting junk is half-a$$ing of the first order.
I don't disagree. When I checked the gear; I checked to see if it worked when I connected it. That is all. The air came through just fine. I am planning to take an equipment training class (as I have tried to do since last year - it just hasn't been available in the area) even if I have to go out of the area to get the instruction. I may even purchase some used gear just to take it apart in order to learn.
That's asinine. There's more to checking out an unfamiliar reg than just hooking it up. Carefully inspect it for defects. Disassembling the second stage, for example, is usually pretty easy. So is checking for cracks on the housing.
I simply paid to go on this charter with the dive shop. The group going had their instructor with them. He was the dive master trainer on board and he buddied them with me because there was an odd number of divers and we were the only three diving air. The dive master trainer and the shop were responsible for the waivers and c-cards. Not me. I found out on my own as to what they were trained on as it all unfolded. And, I didn't agree to lead them below their certified limits. As far as nav skills they should have had the basic skills in OW. I knew I could get back and I wasn't going to let someone who couldn't lead me anywhere.
Do you do everything this so-called "dive master trainer" says. Its every diver's responsibility to make an independent determination of your buddies' abilities and call the dive if it cannot be done safely.
I won't even address the air diving comment, except to suggest that you get some training.
Face it. You were the de facto dive leader of this group. You allowed the "dive master trainer" to buddy you up. You had them follow you. That means that you were the leader.
I don't supervise any divers. I am not qualified.
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I agree that you are not qualified. However, you were leading this dive. The other divers looked to you for guidance and assistance. You accepted the responsibility when the "dive master trainer" buddied you and you took the lead.
I am really glad that you always have your buddy to go with.
That's part of proper pre-dive planning. Who is going? What are their skills? What are their weaknesses. Do they have a compatible attitude and proper training. If the answers don't work for me, I don't dive.
I wonder how many out there take trips and dive without providing their own buddy and they have to buddy up with someone else. I never have until this weekend.
Count that as a learning experience. Now you know what happens when pre-dive planning breaks down.
However, I would like to think that because I need more skills or to improve the skills I have would not prevent a more experienced dive from helping me learn by refusing to dive with me. How else would divers advance to higher levels if no one on the higher would ever dive with them and allow them to get the experience to advance to another level.
It wouldn't prevent me from diving with you. For a price. After you signed the waiver and demonstrated some basic skills that were entirely lacking on the dive you described.
Divers advance by obtaining proper training and by mentoring. Which doesn't happen when some "dive master trainer" buddies you up on a boat with a couple of grab-a$$ing newbies.
This post was not meant for confrontation or debate of this nature so I will end with simply this. I do not claim to be better than I am and will not try to be better than anyone else only better than myself. Further more I learn through forming our Scuba Club that I didn't want to take on the responsibility of other divers I wanted to dive with other divers. I will help other divers if I can and I will learn from other divers what I can. I will offer encouragement to other divers.
No. This post was meant to be another novel, full of extraneous bull-pucky that makes me glad that I wasn't anywhere near that site. It was also supposed to be another feel good fest in the same vein as the immortal "I'm too stupid to know that I shouldn't dive solo in a new site with an untested drysuit before I take the class" thread posted by Snuggle a few weeks ago.
If you want a mutual hand hold, call a therapist. Otherwise, learn from this Charlie Foxtrot and stop trying to play divemaster. Otherwise, you'll be the one who gets to tell the sobbing wife, husband or parent that you just killed someone.