Type A personality isn't your problem.
it's you thinking that you are like everyone else!
LASIK is a pretty safe procedure, but it still is surgery and it is traumatic to some very sensitive tissues. There is so much that is a factor on when your vision will heal up that you can't know until you go through it.
1. All LASIK begins with suction of your eye to stabilize it to make the flap. That suction is the part that causes the bruising of the tissue. That bruising is a major contributor to filmy/veiled vision, halos, etc. during the healing process. For some people the suction amount used is small enough, and their usual bruising level is such that the eye recovers fairly quick, but NOBODY has perfect halo-free, film free vision 24 hours after the event. Most people recall how much better they see, but the excitement of the event overshadows any residual bruising. The red eyes is about your bruising, more than likely. Relax. Quit freaking out and give your eyes a rest.
2. Age, healing ability, general health, and how quickly you start using your "vision" after the surgery also have something to do with your post-operative healing. Some studies suggest that the surgery is not traumatic enough to warrant keeping the eyes closed the first 24 hours after the operation. Others reports have found that greater ablation, age, and slow healing ability can be dramatically mitigated if you allow the patient 18-24 hours of quiet rest with the eyes closed and left to heal.
I had LASIK done 5 years ago I did keep my eyes closed the first day, and freaked out that next day that my vision was still awful. 2 weeks later, I was doing better, and a month later I was 20/15, 20/20 but still had the swelling. and it took 3 months for my veiling/filmy vision to completely clear, and I had halos for awhile but those went away as well.
Be patient with your body, you put your eyes through a big deal and now they need to heal. Obviously burning, itching, pain, and excessive or no tearing are issues to be addressed right away. Also the drops you use also can increase the sensation of filming and halos as they not only put a medicated film on the eyes, but they also can affect intra-occular pressure and swelling.