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mtsidford:Bonaire has terrific vis so you are not likely to lose sight of your son. However distance can be deceiving underwater, and as comfort levels increase both you and your son will drift farther and farther apart underwater looking at whatever captivates you. Yes it's not likely that you will have a failure, but running out of air does happen, even to the most safety concious diver. No it hasn't happened to me but I know a few divers with loads of experience who have.
I sling a 19 cf pony on every dive I do. I don't even notice it. At first you will. The only part I notice is my absolute comfort in knowing that if the sh** hits the fan I can make it back from 130 and under. My buddy who appears bigger than you at 6-3 280 can make it back from a 110 under duress w/ enough for a long safety stop. Tested yeasterday "controlled/planned". If you can afford to drop a few hundred bucks for yourself and son I would.
Having to explain to the wife and others that you brought your son into a hostile environment with as much safety precaution as possible is easier than the latter. Sorry if this sounds brash but I am so much happier diving with one.
No apology needed MT my thoughts exactly, I love to dive with my son and when I first saw him snorkeling and cavorting with the fish it warmed my heart. However it is a HUGE responsibility and I hear ya. It would be nice to dive with another adult as I alluded to in the previous post but I almost feel as though I would be betraying him!