Here is reality...
Men's suits do not fit women properly. They gape in the neck, they are tight it the hips and legs. Manufacturers, for the most part, think women beyond a size 12-14 don't dive. I feel the OPs pain because I am amost the same build as her and I have yet to find a full 3mm wetsuit to fit me properly. My drysuits are all custom.
Atlan is one company I have found that will make wetsuits up to size 24, and their prices are very good. They also can do 2 piece 7mm custom suits for less than some manufacturers sell their regular suit for. However, there is nothing fancy about their suits...they are just neoprene and seams. Workmanship is good, however, unless you are a perfect size, you may have gaping problems. I have good luck with their shorties but I abuse the hell out of them. They typically last about 100 dives in the pool and 2-3 trips to warm water.
Men's suits do not fit women properly. They gape in the neck, they are tight it the hips and legs. Manufacturers, for the most part, think women beyond a size 12-14 don't dive. I feel the OPs pain because I am amost the same build as her and I have yet to find a full 3mm wetsuit to fit me properly. My drysuits are all custom.
Atlan is one company I have found that will make wetsuits up to size 24, and their prices are very good. They also can do 2 piece 7mm custom suits for less than some manufacturers sell their regular suit for. However, there is nothing fancy about their suits...they are just neoprene and seams. Workmanship is good, however, unless you are a perfect size, you may have gaping problems. I have good luck with their shorties but I abuse the hell out of them. They typically last about 100 dives in the pool and 2-3 trips to warm water.