As you have found, dive gear can be expensive and buying the wrong gear for your type of diving can take you down a bottomless rabbit hole. My advice would be to wait until you see how much your son is “into” diving after class. As a general guide, if you are diving quite a bit or planning to advance to technical diving, a Backplate wing setup will offer better options and make trim easier. Finding someone that will let you borrow gear to play around with will go a long way toward helping you make a decision. I have found most divers do not mind letting others use their gear, sometimes shops will do the same if they believe a sale might be in the future. Good luck and let us know what you end up doing.