I am dissapointed to see how many people posted, just to show how unfriendly they could be. Let me see if I can take a stab at this....
dhartshorn:
What I am trying to find out is basically why diving is so important to you,
I am going to get in trouble for this, but scuba isn't that important to me. It is a very enjoyable hobby. It makes for an excellent stress reliever. When my underwater camera is working, it is an additional opportunity for me to extend my phototgraphy.
dhartshorn:
whether there is a set of shared values among divers
I would guess that the most prevelant shared value is diver safety. Most divers are quick to point out if another diver is acting in an unsafe manor. Few divers will dive with a diver, or a dive outfit that is deemed unsafe. A close second would be marine preservation. Obviously, if there is nothing to see while diving, it wouldn't hold the same appeal.
dhartshorn:
and what kind of hierarchy, if any, exists within your community.
I am not sure what the hierarchy there is. There are certainly different degrees. At one end of the spectrum you have the casual recreational diver like myself. Weekends and hollidays during comfortable conditions are our favorite times to dive. Dive gear can be "yard sale specials" or whatever the guy at the dive shop picked out for them. Warm water, and nice visibility are our preferred medium. At the other end, you have the die hard Tech Diver. This type of diver pushes themselves to the limits. They train extensively to dive in some of the most dangerous and extreme conditions. Their gear can costs more than your average car.
dhartshorn:
As a non-diver I would appreciate any input which may help me with my research.
dhartshorn:
Please share any diving stories (like good trips, friends met along the way, accidents etc) as well as what kind of things establish a bond between you and your diving buddies. Any other bits of information you would like to share will be helpful.
Thanks for your help
as for the dive stories... I hate to sound like some of the people on here, but in this it would be best to read some of the dive stories already posted.
unlike some, I will post the links to some stories, I know about that might be what you are looking for.
I am a fairly recent translplant to the northwest FL area, and found the divers here to be friendly and acomodating. SeaYoda will take anyone under his wing, and show them all the "secret" dive spots, and parking techniques. kchFLA will invite you over, and feed you excellently home cooked meals. SuPrBuGmAn will show you murky water shipwrecks, if you dare brave the dark cold waters he likes. Mike_S will, well, he'll try to get you in trouble with his parking style. GlenFWB, well, I am not sure what diving related characteristic I can relate, but, if you need a puppy, he is the man to see. WaywardSon will show you the ropes in spearfishing, and you might get invited to crash a club picnic while you're at it. Baydive20 will likely run by you whispering taunting things. PerroneFord, will keep you interested with tales of cave diving, while answering any questions you throw at him. All these characters and more make up the dive community that I have been welcomed into. None of which I would have likely met, if it wasn't for this scuba forum, ScubaBoard.
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=170674
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=169785
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=165729
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=167165
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=165336
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=162657