1. When I turned the group, my priority was to get everyone to the anchor line, ascend, and then (presumably) share air during the safety stop if need be. We were 25 miles offshore in big enough seas and strong enough currents to where you are not going to be able to swim to the boat, and there is a chance you would not be seen. We were not too far from the anchor line so I didn't think it would be an issue getting there. Afterwards, however, I told myself that I should have passed him my (full) pony bottle. I had plenty of air, he didn't. I could have clipped my pony to him before we swam back. So is that what I should have done? Or do you think the additional task loading and time consumed by the activity would overwhelm a diver? I guess the shrug he gave me indicated that he was comfortable with the situation, so I never viewed this as an imminent incident.
It may help to pre-determine an appropriate 'turn-point' for your dive. Such a turn-point should be dictated by two factors - NDL limit (not an issue in this case) and air consumption (the issue in this case). That air consumption turn-point is arrived at when the
first diver in the group reaches a pre-calculated pressure. You'd need to brief that..and have them signal it... assuming bad diver awareness, you'd also have to monitor it closely during the dive.
Whilst the priority to get the group back to the line is important (especially given other safety factors), the over-riding factor is to get everyone safely to the surface. Never forget that.
The pony cylinder was a resource at your disposal. You chose not to (or didn't think to) utilize that resource. You may want to do so, next time.
The diver's perceived 'comfort' or 'confidence' with being low-on-air at depth is irrelevant. Their lack of risk perspective should
never form the basis of
your own risk assessment. Being low-on-air at depth
is an
incident. Whether it becomes an emergency...or worse, an accident, is determined by what procedures and sense-of-urgency are used to address it. Examine your actions and attitudes in respect of that....
A final point - I
never, never let divers go to
zero air. I will share air when they reach 'low gas' (300psi certainly counts as low). This preserves a contingency gas in their cylinders - which is critical should you become separated, have to deal with other issues
(someone else goes OOA, whilst you are sharing with a LOA diver)...and for them to achieve and retain buoyancy on the surface etc.
2. What do you do if you donate your octo and the guy bolts to the surface? This guy was way bigger than my buddy so there would have been no way to physically overpower him. My thought would be to get behind him and try to get him in a head-down or horizontal attitude using the tank valve and BC as leverage, then guide him/her to safety. Aside from not donating your octo, what do you do once they have it and then panic?
The Rescue Diver course teaches actions/procedures for a panicked diver ascent. I'd disagree that it is impossible to prevent such occurences, regardless of size differential between rescuer and victim.
You need to control two functions: propulsion (fining) and buoyancy... not overpower the
whole diver.
Here's how I teach it (with a background as a Jiu-Jitsu instructor):
As the victim swims upwards, reach out and link your arms around their torso or take a firm grip on their BCD. Dump your own air. Use your legs to encircle and trap their legs (around the thighs)...and then slide downwards so that your legs are now tightly gripped around/below their knees. That prevents them from effectively fining (upwards propulsion). Having achieved this, take control of their LPI and dump their air, if required. Keep yourself pulled tightly in against their body/torso to prevent accidental contact/knocks. Once slowed, begin to establish communication and re-exert control through calm gestures.
That works for my rescue/DM students, regardless of size (need to get a video of that next time, for demonstration).
FWIW, I just signed up for my Rescue class, and will start in a couple weeks.
Also... 5 years from the original post... OP is now a DM... wondering how the poster has managed to answer their own initial questions through progressed experience...