So you have no experience with the way scuba was taught in the system that started with Scripps Institute in the early 1950s, then by Los Angeles in the later 1950s, then by NAUI (which came from the Los Angeles program) and is pretty much the way scuba was taught throughout most of the world from then on. You have no experience with the changes in instructional practice moving from lectures to home study to online learning.
A review of course requirements for the last half century or so show that they only skill taught by most agencies back then that is no longer taught is one regulator buddy breathing, which you describe in your incident. A study by former NAUI President, Berkely professor Glen Egstrom, indicated that for a buddy team to be confident in performing a successful one-regulator buddy breathing exercise in real life, they would need an average of 17 successful practice sessions, and that buddy team would have to practice it together regularly to maintain the skill.