Both statements are from people who dive in warm water (although the author of the first is FROM a cold water background) and I wonder if they are just reflective of the differences.
I dive dry in cold water and as I've written, I use my dry suit as my primary bouyancy device. It is warmer and, to me, simpler (a mere lift of my left arm to vent as I ascend).
I contend there is no Right answer -- it is whatever works for you in that particular situation.
Absolutely - it's a case of personal preference. My issues with drysuit-for-buoyancy stem from the risk of getting inverted and 'blowing your fins off'. There were quite a few occasions when I'd have to be 'head-down' in my drysuit diving/penetrating wrecks... and I didn't like a large volume of air in the suit when that was necessary.
The risk of losing control inside a wreck... or making an unintended rapid feet-first ascent, over-rode any issues of convenience or possible thermal benefits.
As with all things scuba... I developed an ingrained skill-set with one approach and stuck with it, so as to gain the benefit of familiarity.
Good under-garments and, if necessary, argon takes care of the cold. I don't think there's a need to use inflation in that respect. I used to dive in 3 degree Celsius freshwater in the UK winter... sometimes argon was needed (for longer deco), but good layering of undergarments meant I never got cold, even when 'shrink-wrapped'. I used merino wool long-johns and long-sleeve shirt underneath 4th Element Xerotherm Artic two-piece mid-layer, with a Weezle down-filled vest over the top. I was also quite fat
But I was never cold.
Another factor was trust in the buoyancy device. I know where I am with a wing... it inflates, holds air securely... and deflates just as I know it will. There's no chance of a 'torn seal', or air migration causing a critical loss of control/stabilization. If I have a problem underwater, I don't want a single problem causing multiple issues. If my drysuit is my buoyancy... then a torn seal causes multiple problems that I have to deal with simultaneously - the shock of cold and the loss of buoyancy. If however, each component is used for its intended purpose, then a failure only causes a single problem.
I used a drysuit.... to keep me dry.
I used a buoyancy control device.... to control my buoyancy.
Nowadays, I dive in shorts and a rash guard..... what was the question?