Do yourself a favor and do a search on this and read all the threads - including the complete one on TDS. I've had blow-offs, but don't no 'mo.
Dump the Mentors (don't know about Rick's "Clears")and get the Wide Bands.
Don't go too small - a non-stretched fit secures better.
Clean first. And I mean, right before you put on the jacket. I carry those individually wrapped alcohol swabs and use one when I'm ready to put it on.
Route the hose right. YMMV, but I like the up-and-over routing. IOW, I pull the hose (and what's attached to it) pointing straight up, run the hose in a loop back down and then in a straight shot to the valve. Just the right amount of hose - not too much, not too little - so there's no possibility of kinking.
Prime the system before you descend so it's liquid filled before you put pressure on the system. Even your torso hanging down in the water while on the surface puts some squeeze on it, so the sooner, the better. Not that I'm suggesting you prime the system before you hit the water, like on the beach, on in the parking lot, on on the dock, or on the boat...
Control the flow. Go nice and easy... get a good, even stream. Don't try to open the hydrant all at once.
And last of all, if your standing in four feet of water with some other divers who are rinsing their masks in the water around you...