When I bought my drysuit, the Owner of the LDS gave me two options, one was a P-valve, which he reccomended not to do. The other option was to buy a package of depends, and you go about it that way. I personally can hold myself untill the end of a dive, but when the time comes I would go the route of depends, over a p-valve.
That's obviously advice from someone who has never used a p-valve. I have been using a (homemade) p-valve for years with absolutely no problems (except the one time when I forgot to close the bolt and didn't have the plumbing connected). While I can generally "hold" it why would you want the discomfort when it's so easily solved. I don't even know why they make mens suits without p-valves.
Hunter