While diving on a live aboard in the Dry Tortugas back in the early 90's, my dive buddy ran out of air at 90 feet while we were chasing a lobster. We booth were to blame for not being more situationally aware. He was diving with a jacket and did not have the consumption rate that I did. I have found this to almost always be the case when diving with people who use jacket type BC's as opposed to back inflation devices. Knowing this and wanting to be a good dive buddy, I would always check with my dive partner/s when I thought they may be getting low on air. Well I screwed the pooch big time that day and am lucky that no one died because of it. I had been diving for about 15 years by then while he was relatively new to the sport so I have to blame myself more then him for this one. On the upside I am very proud of myself for not panicking and doing everything right to get my partner back to the surface. Only those that have suddenly had their dive partners clutching madly at your regulator at depth can understand the cold terror and reality of this situation. Every decision and move has to be correct or your partner, or possibly both of you, "will" die! I immediately left him have my regulator and started using my octopus. He was still cognoscente enough to know that if he was out of air then I had to be out or near so myself and he started clutching at my gauge console. I knew what he wanted and gave him the thumbs up sign after looking at my pressure gauge. I was reluctant to actually let him see it though because I was very low myself and didn't want him to freak out any further. He really was on the edge! I knew we had enough to make a controlled ascent back to the surface. He immediate wanted to start an emergency ascent and I had to literally pull him back down by the foot. Using hand signals as best as I could I tried to let him know that everything was Ok, but that we needed to go back up correctly. I knew he was somewhat stabilized when he nodded OK and gave me a thumbs up. Using my computer I made sure we didn't ascend to quickly and even managed a safety stop at 15'.
Lessons learned?
Pull your head out of your ass when diving at depth. This may be a sport but it is inherently a dangerous one. Always and I mean "always" try to think what you might have to do if the unthinkable should happen because it can and does! Look out for your dive buddy because at that depth he is the only buddy you got!