You raise two good questions (wing size, and need for a redundant bladder), admittedly discussed in several threads before, but it is helpful to periodically renew thinking and discussion.
I have looked at the OMS 100 lb. lift double bladder BC with the rubber bands around it and have also looked at the Apeks WTX6R "Buoyancy Cell". Which one would you choose and WHY?
PerroneFord:
I've personally carried 5 tanks, and have seen divers with 8 tanks, and I have never needed more than 40 pounds of lift, and have never worn a wing bigger than a 60. And that is nearly always too much.
Very good advice. I started with a 77 lb DR Super Wing (which also has a dual bladder), thinking I would want more lift with a set of double HP120s. It was far more than I needed. I now use a 50 lb (Oxycheq Signature) or 55 lb (Halcyon Explorer) wing - both single bladder -with multiple deco bottles, and either wing offers plenty of lift - as much as (or more than) I need. A 100 lb wing seems needlessly massive (unless you are doing S&R - perhaps bringing up automobiles, or drowned sumo wrestlers).
bell47:
Do you need double bladder, It seems like a little more redundancy and safer to me, but I don't know?
In practice, you want redundant bouyancy when diving heavier doubles, with additional bottles, etc.
PerroneFord:
Double bladders seem like a good idea on paper, but honestly, in the water not so much.
Again, sage advice. There are many sources of redundancy (drysuit, lift bag/SMB, or even two single wings mounted back to back as DA mentioned) and a dual bladder isn't necessary. Having said that, I still have my dual bladder Super Wing (albeit it is very infrequently used), and recently bought a Nomad sidemount set-up with dual bladder, since I plan to dive SM wet most of the time. Essential? Not at all. OK to have? Yes.
bell47:
I've pretty much settled on getting the XTX200 regs, but I'm open to suggestion.
Excellent regulators. I have ATX 200s and love them. Many other good regulators out there. But, you would not be disappointed with the XTX 200s.
bell47:
I've heard that the LP's are easier on the regulators, any truth to this?
It is regularly suggested but seems to be, at best, an anecdotal concern. I dive HP120s (3500psi) and have never noticed any problems with my regulators (Apeks or Zeagle ZX-50Ds), nor do I notice any particularly greater wear and tear when I service them.