Hi ScubaFireDiver,
First, congratulation on becoming a diver, and welcome to a very addictive (and expensive) activity! You are going to love it!
When it comes to choosing a brand, you don't have to stress too much about it. Almost all the manufacturers produce quality dive equipment.
However, it is the type of diving in which you need to consider. It sounds like you are going to be doing a lot of local diving, but I didn't catch what kind of diving that is. Are you near warm or cold water? If you are near cold water, make sure your regulator can handle it. The regulator specs should tell you if it is designated for warm or cold water.
Also, it sounds like you will be moving into more technical diving someday (I hope you do!)...Your regulator will last you many years, so if that is the case then you might want to spend a little more to get a regulator that can handle technical diving. These are regulators that are, at the very least, built with more durable materials. I prefer a regulator that gives me high performance, but without overly complicated designs. That way less can go wrong on deeper dives and it is easy to service (less $$ for the parts). I currently use an Apeks regulator for both recreational and technical dives. There are several other brands that make high quality regulators.
As far as the BCD is concerned, you can't use a regular BCD for tech diving, so you can save some $$ with that now and then buy a backplate, harness & wing later. Or you can just go with a technical set up now. I use mine for both technical and recreational diving. I like traveling with my bp&w much better because it takes up less space in my bag.
Of course, we all have an opinion. In the end, just go with what feels comfortable and fits within you budget.
I'm not trying to sell you here (unless you are buying
), but we have some very nice deals on
gear packages. Take a look. At the very least, you'll have an idea of what things cost.
Cheers,