Do you honestly think that's all their is to deco/cave dives??
-How do you organize the team when you have light failures?
-How do you adjust the deco plan when something unforseen happens?
-How do you move efficiently when things are going sideways, or does your newfound friend have a complete brainfart when confronted with a new problem?
-So when your new tech buddy has a leaking 1st stage on their deco bottle and they re-pressurize it at the gas switch to a shower of bubbles, can they hold their stop and fix it?
-Light failiures? Weakest link in the middle (if 3 man team), otherwise in front...
-Adjusting deco? The "common" failiures are known and planned for, the uncommon ones? You´ll just have to improvise won´t you?
-Brainfarts? Well, those can happen to anyone, regardless of training, you deal as best you can...what is the GUE-procedure for brainfarts?
-Not being able to hold stops? Perhaps I´m silly to believe that self-preservation would keep anyone who can´t hold them from doing deco-dives? I´ve never seen anyone who can´t in the water but I suppose there are some around...if that´s the case you pad deco, survive the dive and talk about it on the surface...
Some agencies are teaching divers to drop their bottles in the ocean. That's a big deal to me but something I would never have to ask my buddies or people trained like me. How about exiting a cave on backup lights or in poo vis. Some classes spend less time on this than I would like. Does your new buddy have enough bandwidth to navigate accurately in low light or poor vis?
-Dropping bottles? Seems like a very expensive way to dive and I have a hard time believing that to be the case...anyway, they´ll have to deco out on backgas and I´ll have to stay with them (this is one of the backup-plans anyway)...I wouldn´t let them borrow my bottles to shorten the deco though
-Exiting on backups? This is taught in all cave-classes (it´s required?! Isn´t exiting on backups one of those things that happens on almost all exits during training?) I don´t know how much time is enough? Exiting on backup seems pretty trivial to me so I don´t even see what the issue would be TBH...
-Poor viz? Everyone does no-light exits in their classes?! poor or low wiz should be a walk in the park and navigation is everyones personal responsibility so I wouldn´t trust anyone elses(unless I had to)...if we have an unsoluble disagreement about the "right way", we´ll both have to take our chances won´t we?...same as with a known buddy? It´s your life, your responsibility?!
I am much pickier than that. GUE and DIR gives me a huge pool of potential buddies to choose from, more than I can dive with in a lifetime. So I don't have a big need to research the training and skills of any possible buddy, I'd rather spend that effort diving.
That´s fine, you are certainly entitled to dive how or with whoever you want...For me, your approach is restrictive and I percieve the risks associated with my way as a lot lower than you obviously do...