I completely disagree. Who made this "rule of thumb" youre talking about?
First of all, the ballistic material used in the outer shell of bladders (and even the inner shell) are equal or more resilient as the material used in dry suit. Due to the continuous construction of BCDs I actually believe that there are more fail points in a dry suit than a BCD. Inflation device, purge valves, neck and arm seals, etc
Running your dry suit off a separate post than your inflator gives no more added redundancy than a dual bladder. Both inflators have their own hoses which should be run off separate posts. You would leave your 2nd inflator hose disconnected unless there is an emergency to make sure you dont accidentally put air in it. I understand that this is extremely task loading for all levels of diving but in the event of an emergency, connect the secondary inflator hose and voila! You dont even need to balance air between your dry suit and bladder!
Remember people we're talking worst case scenarios. Should both your inflation devices fail (and your third if you have a lift bag) then look to your buddy, signal, call the dive and return to the surface safely. He is your third (or fourth) redundancy. If you dont have a buddy (I dont condemn solo diving because this is an avenue I am pursuing) then your original dive plan SHOULD have taken into consideration the unlikely event that you would have to swim to the surface. Swims are in the OW and DM curriculum in order to ensure that you are fit to dive
and if youre at 300 ft. depths alone then Im sorry but youre SOL.
I'm a wetsuit diver, always will be (perhaps a dry suit one day, because I would like to learn all aspects of scuba diving), I dive with heavy steel tanks, single or doubles and/or stage bottles because I like having lots of air and a back-up if needed. If you are unable to be positively buoyant without ditch-able weight, you need a redundant buoyancy device and I would highly recommend a dual bladder regardless of your exposure suit.
Can you ever REALLY be safe enough?