K_girl
Contributor
aozger - I have to say, I think you wasted your money getting OW, AOW and EAN with only 2 ocean dives under your belt. You need practice with each level of training before you move on to the next. You simply cannot retain and safely practice that amount of information at once. I know dive shops and instructors encourage it, but that's for money. It is simply not practical. And actually, I think it is downright unsafe. And it is obvious from your post that you knew you were not really an advanced diver when you thought a dive master was going to be looking out for you. Just because you have an AOW cert card, does not make you an AOW diver.
In a 7-mil wetsuit in Florida? We dive 7-mils out here in California in 52-degree water. Seems to me that might have been overkill. Not sure how you came to the conclusion to dive that much wet suit in Florida, but perhaps the information-overloading caused you not to remember that you would need much more weight for a wet suit like that. Sounds like you were weighted for a 3- or 5-mil wet suit and perhaps that assumption was made by the person who you asked to help you determine your weight. So, the first mistake was made before you ever stepped foot on the boat.
The problem new divers face is getting on a boat with advanced divers who want the deeper dives. However, here is another potential case of information overload that you may have forgotten. You decided you wanted to do a 2-tank dive, but you were on a 3-tank boat trip. The first dive is the deepest dive and the dives after that always get shallower - that is always the profile. You should have elected to do the second 2 tanks and not the first two. So, why did you go against your first instinct to keep your dives shallower? I'll tell you why - because everyone else was doing it and you didn't want to be left out and you thought, well, you paid for 3 dives, maybe you might actually do 3 dives and even though the first dive is out of your comfort zone, the dive master will watch over me - just like my dive instructor did. Wrong. Dive masters on boats are not your dive instructors who are watching your every move.
Set your goals and stick to them. I did this with my progression. My first goal was, I will not go any deeper than 40 feet in cold water until I can successfully complete a 5 dives with a full safety stop in open water without the aid of anchor line or kelp. My buddy who got me into diving completely respected those goals and he helped me achieve it by doing shore dives with me. I set an exercise before every dive trip. I had to be able to remove my weights, find my reg, find my octo with my eyes closed and heavy gloves on. I did it no less than 50 times before each trip. Yes, I wanted someone there to answer my questions, help watch over me and my experienced buddy did that for me. If that is what you want, then get yourself an experienced dive buddy who enjoys helping new divers, or hire a DM who is capable of devoting his/her attention to you.
In a 7-mil wetsuit in Florida? We dive 7-mils out here in California in 52-degree water. Seems to me that might have been overkill. Not sure how you came to the conclusion to dive that much wet suit in Florida, but perhaps the information-overloading caused you not to remember that you would need much more weight for a wet suit like that. Sounds like you were weighted for a 3- or 5-mil wet suit and perhaps that assumption was made by the person who you asked to help you determine your weight. So, the first mistake was made before you ever stepped foot on the boat.
The problem new divers face is getting on a boat with advanced divers who want the deeper dives. However, here is another potential case of information overload that you may have forgotten. You decided you wanted to do a 2-tank dive, but you were on a 3-tank boat trip. The first dive is the deepest dive and the dives after that always get shallower - that is always the profile. You should have elected to do the second 2 tanks and not the first two. So, why did you go against your first instinct to keep your dives shallower? I'll tell you why - because everyone else was doing it and you didn't want to be left out and you thought, well, you paid for 3 dives, maybe you might actually do 3 dives and even though the first dive is out of your comfort zone, the dive master will watch over me - just like my dive instructor did. Wrong. Dive masters on boats are not your dive instructors who are watching your every move.
Set your goals and stick to them. I did this with my progression. My first goal was, I will not go any deeper than 40 feet in cold water until I can successfully complete a 5 dives with a full safety stop in open water without the aid of anchor line or kelp. My buddy who got me into diving completely respected those goals and he helped me achieve it by doing shore dives with me. I set an exercise before every dive trip. I had to be able to remove my weights, find my reg, find my octo with my eyes closed and heavy gloves on. I did it no less than 50 times before each trip. Yes, I wanted someone there to answer my questions, help watch over me and my experienced buddy did that for me. If that is what you want, then get yourself an experienced dive buddy who enjoys helping new divers, or hire a DM who is capable of devoting his/her attention to you.