Hi Grace,
Another to consider is the Waterproof Taurus semi-dry (or whatever they call it now). The quality and construction of these suits is second to none and they offer a huge variety of sizes for all body types, heights and widths, which might be very important for you. I dive Waterproof wetsuits and they are just superb. Costly, but will last many many years.
I have Probe 1.5mm frogskins. Probe's new "quick dry" fleece lining is completely amazing and creates tremendous warmth. I would take a serious look at their "iDry" 7 mil suit which they call a semi-dry..
Not sure what you mean about the Hollis. If everyone you know has one, isn't that a testament to its effectiveness? I think it is one of the best bargains in semi-drys considering its features (integrated hood, excellent pockets). This should be a top contender on anyone's list and I don't get why you would eliminate it to be "different" when that might just mean "spending more $$ and being cold."
I know a friend who dives the Aqua-lung SolaFX and has nothing but good things to say about it as well. Very thick, though.
Can't comment on the Scubapro as I don't know anyone who dives it.
Finally, lots of reasons to like freedive suits (flexible, soft, great seals), but not for scuba. Delicate soft neoprene which is not well suited to wear from straps holding your heavy gear or banging around boats or rocks, etc underwater, also have serious neoprene compression at depth so you have big buoyancy swings when surfacing and lose warmth at depth. easily damaged linings so they require lubricant to put on, Many of these things are advantages for freediving, but there is a reason very, very few scuba divers use these types of suits. If you want to try one, though, I saw Dano's suits at a show last week, they are really nice, and the price can't be beat for a freediving suit.
But, like everything related to wetsuits, FIT IS KING. Try on as many as you can to get the best fit and seal. Price just does not really matter because if the most expensive does not fit, then it will not work.