The "back inflates tip you forward at the surface" statements do have some credence to them. They were not just something made up. However, it is from people who did not know what they were doing with them and treated them like a jacket style BCD.
A jacket style BCD can be fully inflated to the point that the OPV lets gas out. As a diver, it does nothing to how you are at the surface other than maybe squeezing the crap out of you. This habit of over-inflating a bcd is common.
When people switch to back inflate, they do what they know and that is to over inflate. At that point, yes it will tip you forward a little. But let some air our, lean back and relax. There really is no need to be fully inflated with a single cylinder.
It is the most comfortable you will ever be on the surface.