We need to learn more skills, e.g.open water ascents, gas planning. Like I said, we should have taken out the signalling devices that we do have and signalled the DM to turn the dive. Like I said, we were idiots for relying too much on someone else. But to attempt an open water ascent when there is a strong surface current and swim away from a gas supply is a bad idea.
Bill
Hi Bill,
Imagine yourself at 50 feet deep, with you and your wife suddenly both OOA. You have NO choice but to rush for the surface, and you have no idea if you will survive given your lack of experience with emergency ascents like this.....As you begin this panicked rush to the surface, one of the things bouncing around in your brain is the awareness that your wife had been counting on you---and that your bad judgement may well have just killed the woman you love.
One of your biggest jobs on a dive , is to make decisions throughout the dive that will ABSOLUTELY PREVENT such a scenario from ever happening....this is why that REGARDLESS of where the DM is, when you get lower than 1000 psi, the two of you are heading up....this needs to be like a promise you have made to your wife, and her to you. Any DM that motions you to keep going, screw him.....your life means more..Your wife's life means more.........You have no idea if the DM is even competent. Your best assumption if he is motioning you to keep going with "Low on Air" going on, is that the DM is dangerously incompetent.
So the next thing to imagine, is how bad is it to be on the surface with your wife, with an inflated BC, and it being just the 2 of you.....worst case, the current is pulling you away from the boat....Big Deal!...You are breathing. You are both floating comfortably, and you could both survive like this for a very long time.....The boat is going to see you, and they WILL pick you up as soon as they can....This is a complete non-issue, compared to the the DANGER of the two of you actually running OOA underwater. Even if you had good CESA skills, the correct solution is to avoid the OOA, and to get to the surface with plenty of margin....the ascent at 1000 psi..... Maybe when you have 200 more dives, you can change the 1000 psi number to 800, but for now, you are blowing through alot of air in a stress scenario, and 1000 is an easy number to watch for, react to, and one with enough reserve for any recreational ascents you are likely to be doing in the next few months.
If this is scary...then my best advice is get an instructor to work with your wife and you on doing free ascents ( breathing the whole time, just no line to follow) and get enough under your belt that they don't scare you. I don't think anyone should be diving without the belief that they can accomplish an ascent to the surface themself, without a line.....
Forget the idea of taking "the next" class in line in the PADI modular approach.....there is a KEY SKILL you and your wife MUST HAVE prior to doing any more diving. That is the skill you need to worry about....not Nitrox, not navigation...not some badge that is supposed to mean a higher level of diving....This key skill is what you need first.