DaleC
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I understand yours and Bobs POV and think it is a neccisary part of the checks and balances process.
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I think that some people simply have too much ego to accept guidance.
First, I'm one who believes that the 100 dives is almost certainly too few dives for most people to be ready to solo dive. Second, as a relatively new instructor I can tell you that observed behavior in a controlled skill review session doesn't show how someone deals with difficulties on a real dive.
Ultimately, the minimum dive number is a heuristic, but that is the best we can do unless you are suggesting limiting solo diving classes to those who have made multiple real dives with an instructor and at least one where a problem was encountered so that the instructor can evaluate how the person responds to stress.
Overconfidence drives foolish behavior that is justified by the perpetrator by ego and ignorance. I realize that no matter how many of us point that out, there is going to be a (large) percentage who don't believe us. But with maturity and experience comes wisdom, and after a few hundred more dives, and a couple of problem moments, minds change.
Folks posting here are not anti-solo diving. But advocating for responsible choices, particularly for inexperienced divers, is simply common sense.
I've met more than a few people with 20, 30, 50 or more dives whose experience led them to believe they could handle anything because they hadn't yet needed to deal with any issue of significance. I was one of them.
Although you are also experienced and knowledgeable (and presumably have concern for your fellow divers as well), you come across as an arrogant, egotistical, know-it-all. Im sure youll respond to this ad-nauseum with some excessively long retort...but Id be willing to bet its the general consensus amongst the members who have been reading these posts.
People may enjoy solo pursuits.... but generally they understand their relative level of competance in those activities. This is especially true when the activity has a risk factor.
Solo diving without experience is akin to free-climbing without having first ever practiced on ropes.....
Funnily enough, those things don't happen in climbing...
It's not the same for scuba, where the risk can be more hidden.
The problem that we see as instructors (and I am happy to assume that any other instructor would cite simular experiences) is that less experienced divers are often very poorly skilled at correctly self-appraising their true diving capabilities.
It boils down to this ... no matter how "valid" one's advice may be, it really doesn't matter unless the person you're offering it to wants to hear it.Bob's friend John:Hee Hee Hee
Both sides of the issue completely missed the other's point - it all boiled down to this:
Point one - you should use these methods to determine how you dive, how deep you can go, and for how long.
Point two - Don't frickin' lecture me!
Point one, part two - but, you should use these methods to determine how you dive, how deep you can go, and for how long!
Point two, part two - I told you, don't frickin' LECTURE me!
Point one, part three - you're not understanding what I'm saying - you should use these methods to determine how you dive, how deep you can go, and for how long!
Point two, part three - Dammit! DON'T you lecture me, *******!!!
Point one, part four - it's clear that you're not understanding what I'm saying - let me paraphrase this another way - you REALLY should use these methods when planning how you dive, how deep you can go, and for how long!
Point two, part four - AAAIIIIEEEEEE!!!!! I shall kiil you, you blue-gloved wearing, Kool-Aid drinking sonuvabitch, if you don't quit lecturing me!!!!
and so on, and so on, and so on.....
I got the distinct feeling that you and others thought that if only you worded things differently they might understand....It's so clear, really....but they never did. I guess that the bottom line is this - if they don't want to be lectured, don't lecture them....even if they are wrong.
Life can sure be frickin' interesting, eh?
- John
i simply prefer diving alone - it never came down to feeling ready enough to conquer the solo! i started solo-ing at about 20 dives, because frankly, as a 20 year old (who still looks like a child), i didn't like diving with borderline-pedophile old dudes with wire-rimmed glasses. simple as that.