Thank you all and please excuse my long delay in responding.
While there doesn't seem to have been systematic problems with the YKK plastic zipper, there most definitely is room for improvement in the advice on care and maintenance (not from YKK's side but from some manufacturers):
I'll try to sum up my findings:
According to Josh Hawthorn at YKK UK/Sweden, the YKK teeth are injection molded onto the sealing ribbon. If I understood him right, there have been successive improvements to the YKK plastic zipper. Compared to my damaged zipper (manufactured 2016), there seems to now be a different production process. Also, if I understood him right, especially in the last two years the process seems to be very good. He reported the zipper's serial number and the photo I posted first in this thread in a support ticket to their quality department, but there doesn't seem to have been general quality issues with my zipper's batch. All in all, my experience from YKK UK (when calling them) is very good. I was handled with interest and professionalism. (But they still haven't responded to the message I first sent through their web contact form...)
Josh also brought my attention to YKK's technical support web page for the Aquaseal zipper:
AQUASEAL ® | Technical Support/water-protective/support/aquaseal/
"Please see the instructions below for each zipper type.
For the W-seal (Closed-end) application,
1. Apply the lubricant to the top-seal as indicated in the diagram.
2. Apply a small amount of paraffin wax along the zipper elements.
For Single-seal or Open-end applications,
1. Apply paraffin wax along the zipper elements.
*Do not directly apply the lubricant on the zipper’s elements"
AQUASEAL ® | Technical Support/water-protective/support/aquaseal/
"Please do not fold or bend the zippers when they are stored.
Please do not store the garment/goods under the circumstances where it will be over 60°C (140°F).
Store with the zipper completely closed, taking care not to bend it. The storage in an opened position for long period will cause zipper bending.
If this occurs, slight leaks are possible."
Finally, YKK told me that the metal zipper is their preferred choice for a diving dry suit.
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I also talked to three people at Ursuit throughout this affair, in particular Tommi Ahonen and Mattias Vendlegård in the sales organization for Sweden. They too took a serious interest in my case and answered my questions kindly and without nonsense.
As I have previously emphasized, the Ursuit Softdura is a very fine suit that I strongly recommend. However, in my opinion, Ursuit is under-performing in instructions for care and maintenance. Or perhaps they simply didn't bother to add information about the plastic zipper, so the original advice for metal zippers is what's still published. Here's the full quote from their service web page:
Servicing · Ursuit
"How to extend the life of your dry suit
You have just made a great dive, and now you are outside from the water, already thinking about the next step, taking a coffee or a drink in the next bar, or driving straight home. Last thing you are thinking now is to take care of your dry suit. Just don't do it. Be careful, and following the next suggestions, you will extend the life of your product, and you will keep yourself dry longer.
What to do to after the dive:
Rinse your dry suit with fresh water, especially if you dive in salt water. Make sure that all sand and dirt is washed away.
Pay attention particularly to the valves and zipper. After closing the zipper put a copious amount of running water over it. Dry the valves with a good blast of compressed air.
Before storing the suit, make sure it is dry inside and outside – do not dry it directly under the sun or in a place too hot or with high humidity. Choose a place where it could hang in a cool, dry, dust free area.
Lubricate your zipper after every dive - open and close it - The friction caused by the slider moving over the teeth heats the lubricant causing it to flow into the teeth (if your zipper is fraying, remove the excess with a sharp scissors and be careful on not to cut the rubber).
Put some talcum powder on the neck and wrist seals. Use unscented talcum (the scented one could contain ingredients that could ruin the rubber).
General advices
Make certain your zipper is always open all the way when putting on and off your suit.
Open the crotch strap and pull up the telescopic torso before to get out from the dry suit.
Store your dry suit with the waterproof zipper open."
I discussed the matter of Ursuit maintenance advice contradicting both YKK and Santi (link below). One of the Ursuit reps said that they needed to update their web site. Another of them said that it is OK to store the suit with the plastic zipper open.
At least one of the Ursuit reps recommends the metal zipper, but emphasizes that it is more fragile with respect to bending during storage.
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Santi has made a serious attempt regarding maintenance advice:
https://santidiving.com/files/98/SANTI_DIVING_PROPER_MAINTENANCE_OF_YKK_AQUASEAL_ZIPPER.pdf
They are in line with YKK regarding storing the suit with the zipper closed (and the reason why this is important), but they only mention lubrication of the bottom seal (using the lubrication stick "attached" [shipped with the suit?]).
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According to a screen dump from DUI (allegedly) in the below thread, the YKK plastic zipper should not have the closure waxed or lubricated:
new YKK plastic dry suit zipper care / maintenance
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I also received prompt and proper response from Mike at Dive Right in Scuba. I contacted him because of this old posting from 2015:
Drysuit Zippers....Saaaaay what? Which one????
in which he said "the PROs far out weigh the CONs and plastic wins hands down".
In our correspondence he wrote:
"As for closing the Zipper, will I appreciate that they recommend to fully close the zipper, that puts extra pressure on the docking or sealing end.[?] I don't recommend that because it can have a memory from it, and fail prematurely. You can use a heat gun to help it rebound, but you're putting more pressure than needed, and for zero gain. I would close it all but that last inch, so you don't put pressure on the docking end."
and
"Yes, we do see tooth rotation occasionally, and based on the location, we can assume it's from the user and pulling properly. I wouldn't say any of what your seeing is an issue with the zipper or a manufacturing issue. It's not a major issue like they had with delamination, and it always seems to be user error."
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This posting is getting a wee bit long. I'll add my comments in the next posting.