Uncle Pug:
You are a hoover. ... They paid $$$ for the dive trip but you've ruined it for them. Do you feel any responsibility to recompense them?
Considering UP's initial post was directed to hoovers, I find it interesting how few admitted hoovers have replied. Either Noobies/Hoovers are reluctant to post, there are a very small percentage of them on SB, or we have lots of folks here with high opinions of themselves.
As I mentioned before, I have a regular dive buddy, and diving with her is what it's all about for me. Since I'm pretty new, I haven't had occaision to dive with anyone else. (I also haven't been diving for over a year due to fertility treatments, pregnancy and now - lack of time/funds/desire to be away from my bundle of joy.)
Hypothetically, if I was paired with an unknown buddy on a dive trip, I would certainly discuss my experience level, skills etc. ahead of time. I would expect to be paired with someone comparable to me, but would secretly hope to be paired with someone more experienced and willing to share. If that happened, I would do my best to learn from the experience, and express my gratitude at the end of the dive. Depending on how much mentoring I received, I would offer a drink, snack or meal as a friendly thank-you.
Thanks for the interesting thread,
Scuba-sass
