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khatley

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Looking for suggestions. My fiancé has 2 kids oldest son doesn’t dive but her daughter and both my kids dive. Also have some friends that dive but we are kind of thinking elope and just have a badass vacation for the kids. I have always wanted to go to Bonaire and thought about going there. Also considering Thailand, Indonesia, French Polynesia. She wants mountains doesn’t want to make it about diving. I want beach and think the kids will have more enjoyment and memories while diving. Coming from Dallas probably do a two week trip. We got engaged in Ireland so also considering there or Italy. I don’t mind spending a lot to get there but would prefer to go somewhere that I can not be too concerned about how much I am spending taking 6 people, I want to keep it under what a normal wedding would cost me!! Any suggestions are welcome. Bonaire is appealing, closer flight, shore diving will be easier to plan dives certainly if others come. Maybe an Airbnb on a reef would be good. Indonesia has some fantastic ones but know nothing about the country.
 
Looking for suggestions. My fiancé has 2 kids oldest son doesn’t dive but her daughter and both my kids dive. Also have some friends that dive but we are kind of thinking elope and just have a badass vacation for the kids. I have always wanted to go to Bonaire and thought about going there. Also considering Thailand, Indonesia, French Polynesia. She wants mountains doesn’t want to make it about diving. I want beach and think the kids will have more enjoyment and memories while diving. Coming from Dallas probably do a two week trip. We got engaged in Ireland so also considering there or Italy. I don’t mind spending a lot to get there but would prefer to go somewhere that I can not be too concerned about how much I am spending taking 6 people, I want to keep it under what a normal wedding would cost me!! Any suggestions are welcome. Bonaire is appealing, closer flight, shore diving will be easier to plan dives certainly if others come. Maybe an Airbnb on a reef would be good. Indonesia has some fantastic ones but know nothing about the country.
Belize has beautiful rainforest and fantastic diving
 
Bali gives you everything. A bit pricy to get there for 6 people but once you are there you can choose your price point from extreme budget to extreme luxury. Two weeks is a bit short but a good start. You can get some excellent diving and do the tourist thing with beaches, temples, markets, culture and a couple of significant mountains. The rest of Indonesia is a bit more difficult to visit with less infrastructure. The diving is spectacular and there are lots of interesting things to do and see, but you need to work at finding them. I would start in Bali.

Saba has some great hiking and some good diving. I wouldn't call them mountains but it is middle of summer here and I can see snow capped mountains from my front yard. Combined with Saint Martins would be a good trip. Not inexpensive however.

Belize has some good hiking and some good diving. It has been many years so no idea what pricing is now.

I have passed on Caribbean diving for a number of years. South East Asia diving is so much better. More variety and less expensive.
 
She wants mountains doesn’t want to make it about diving. I want beach and think the kids will have more enjoyment and memories while diving. Coming from Dallas probably do a two week trip.
St. Lucia might work well. Anse Chastanet seems to have a good rep. (I'm too cheap to stay there), and their website can show you some photos of St. Lucia.
Bonaire is appealing, closer flight, shore diving will be easier to plan dives certainly if others come.
I love Bonaire, but much of it's flat, much of the hilly region is shrubby with more thorns than you likely knew there were in the world, it's arid and I don't think it's what you want this time. For a place half again the size with more civilization and topside attractions, and some of the same benefits, take a look at Curacao. That said, it's arid, and while it has some mountainous area from what I understand, if you stay 'near the action' in Willemstad, you won't be gazing at a mountain range from your hotel room. But Curacao rocks. Edit: I see from his profile the original poster has been there.

Curacao Trip Research Notes

Curacao Trip Report with SB Surge Jan. 2019

Indonesia has some fantastic ones but know nothing about the country.
Raja Ampat 10-Night Indo-Siren Liveaboard Dec. 2 – 12, 2022 Trip Report - Trip Report - Raja Ampat 10-Night Indo-Siren Liveaboard Dec. 2 – 12, 2022 Trip Report

I know you're not in the market for a liveaboard, but it was my one trip to the region, and I tried to infuse the report with the info. a fellow 1st timer would need.

Look, the plane travel can be brutally long, and if the word 'budget' is in your vocabulary upgrading to first class may not be in your wallet. Unless these 4 kids in particular are well-traveling and accustomed to flights, I'd think long and hard before going with this.
Saba, Dominica?
Those do come to mind; I haven't visited either. Of the 2, from what I recall reading, Saba is rather 'quiet' topside. 6 People looking for good times without a strong diving focus might find it a bit sleepy.Per Travel+Leisure:
"Saba doesn’t have large resorts, casinos, fast-food franchises, or duty-free shopping malls. And there are no concrete high-rises on this island that bills itself as the "Unspoiled Queen of the Caribbean." Instead, charming, white, wooden cottages with forest-green shutters and red-tin roofs punctuate the island’s hills. Saba is also a Caribbean anomaly, the tip of a now-dormant underwater volcano with no beaches except for the tiny black-sand "disappearing beach" at Well's Bay, seen only from June through October. So, a stay here isn’t for your everyday sun- and sand-seeking visitor. Instead, Saba attracts adventurous travelers (about 9,000 a year in pre-pandemic years), who come mostly to hike, dive, or simply relax."

Dominica is much larger than Saba. It's also poor, from what I recall, with a rep. for scenic tropical rainforest hiking but I recall it being said to be a poor (economically) island. I don't know how it would be for 2 honeymooners and 4 kids (1 a non-diver)? Perhaps ask @agilis

St. Lucia is mountainous, has some nice rainforest hiking, has Sandals Resorts (not an option with children, but gives you some idea the crowd St. Lucia draws, plus it's a cruise port), and has nice diving.

Puerto Rico might have something to offer. From what I recall of El Yunque Rainforest, it looked to be. Some quick Googling suggests it has mountains.

St. Croix might work.
St. Croix Research Report Aug. 2017 - Trip Report - St. Croix Research Report Aug. 2017 Since I was there, a hurricane came through and which dive shop operates where has changed (I also heard they got a zip line operator), but the broad strokes overview should be much the same.

Disclaimer: I don't know just how big or numerous the 'mountains' must be. 'Mountainous' Caribbean may not impress someone from Montana.
 
Belize has some good hiking and some good diving. It has been many years so no idea what pricing is now.
My trip there was via liveaboard, plus separately a cruise ship stop with an excursion by boat up New River and hike in an area with a name that meant 'submerged crocodile.' Lush rainforest, beautiful Mayan ruins (we hit Mask Temple, Tall Temple and Jaguar Temple, and were allowed to climb atop the first two).

In discussions of Belize, people who want to operate from a single mainland base seem to talk about Placencia and using Splash Divers (do a forum search for them), but it may be more of a ride to/from the reef. Belize isn't an island, it's a country with islands, so things can be spread out as you know. Divers who like a touristy place for a dive-focused trip speak of Ambergris Caye. With 2 weeks to worth with, it might be worth spending a week on A.C. and a week on the mainland enjoying topside activities.
 
Belize. Spend half your time at a place like Black Rock Lodge in the mountains near San Ignacio in the western part of the country and do some caving, hiking, exploring Mayan ruins. Then head to the coast for diving. Ambergris or Caye Caulker, or maybe Placencia.
 
Hi @khatley

No place I've been matches your profile perfectly. I would consider Dominica as having a nice combination of diving and land exploration. I might also consider Guanacaste Costa Rica with very good diving and a variety of other activities.
 
I’m wondering about the ages of the kids and especially the non-diver. Anse Chastenet (St Lucia) was really nice - and you get the Pitons as a beautiful backdrop. But what does a kid who doesn’t dive to on the daily on vacation there - or Indonesia?

Also, the Philippines was a 15 hour flight there and a 13 hour flight back. Indonesia is much harder to navigate with longer legs or more legs, depending on how you arrange it. Getting six people there and back again could be, dare I say ‘nightmarish’ unless you’re flying first class. If you’re flying first class, will you adopt me and my husband? We’d be the perfect companion flyers! :wink:
 

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