It's a fair question, and the answer is that my friend has much more experience diving than I do so I'm comfortable diving with my friend as my buddy. My friend is also good at staying calm and level-headed, even if he does not have the fastest reaction time.
The concern that I have (justified or not) was whether, at depths where narcosis starts to become an issue, my friend would be more pre-disposed to being "forgetful." Like, < 100 ft, great buddy; > 100 ft, not so great buddy? But maybe this is where repetitive training comes in and muscle memory takes over?
I'm going to copy a post a made on another thread regarding narcosis that may have some relevance to your question:
The thing about narcosis is that there really are several variables - environmental as well as personal that will affect your susceptibility. For example, I routinely conduct dives to 55m on air in warm water, with plenty of light and visibility and virtually no current... I hardly notice anything. However at times I have performed the exact same dives (or shallower) but in colder water temperatures and have felt noticeable effects. Environmental factors such as water temp, visibility, light, and work load at depth in addition to your own physical characteristics will all play a part. These can all change on a dive per dive basis... even at the same site.
If, however, I know that I will be diving to the same depth but doing a wreck penetration, or the water temp is colder, or there is going to be a significant work load (currents) etc.. then I will most definitely be on mix or if that's not available, not make the dive.
Therefore it's important to consider that your deep training coupled with experience should allow you to make a judgement call as to whether it is wise to perform any given dive by assessing the various conditions (personal and environmental) for that dive.
So in other words, although we have a general idea of the causes and symptoms of narcosis it's not easy to predict how an individual may be affected and how this can change due to so many variables... and BTW not noticing it doesn't mean you're not a little impaired.
If you're concerned about how your friend is going to react to being narc'd I would suggest avoid going deep (i.e. beyond 15 meters) on the first few dives and then very gradually work your way up to greater depths over several dives... but keep in mind that the diving conditions can change and if they are vastly different from your previous dives, you should proceed with caution or avoid going deeper on subsequent dives.
Hope that helps.