stay with the bottles you have and tell your buddies to get over it, you'll be dumping $500ish for a new set of tanks that is like half the cost of Cave 2 and it MIGHT get you 10% farther into the cave because you have the added mass that you have to move with the 104's and you'll be less efficient. You also have to contend with bottles that act VERY differently to your current tanks and will require you to basically relearn sidemount. With 104's you are basically strapping a 4lb weight onto each of your LP85's *yes, they are that negative*, and that's going to screw up your weighting, your trim, you MUST dive a sidemount rig with a butt plate and you're going to have to use it, it's a completely new ballgame. The AL80's to LP85's isn't terribly huge of a change, but going to 104's is a nightmare and there is a reason that literally no one uses them in sidemount. Wonderful backmount bottles, horrific sidemount bottles.
The 104's aren't going to get you more cave experience and are likely only to set you back farther in your cave progression. If you need bigger bottles you really need to go with Fabers to not royally screw up your sidemount experience. 108's are going to be essentially an 8" version of your 85's with similar length and buoyancy characteristics. Since they are about 6lbs lighter each than the 104's, you will actually get a bit farther in the cave which is good. Probably not the full 30% that you get on paper, at least not until you're more experienced, but it will help.