That's an odd problem that I haven't heard about yet. I had trouble using the hold your nose and blow method (Valsava), and could never get it to work. Another reason I don't like this method is it's very easy to blow too much and cause damage. I eventually watched a video by a scuba diving ear doctor here on scubaboard who outlined several different methods.
The one I ended up using successfully was the Lowry, where you basically hold your nose and blow
gently while swallowing. For some people, the lucky ones, just wiggling the jaw or swallowing works.
Here is a list from DAN of the various methods and their names:
- Equalizing Techniques
- Passive - requires no effort
- Valsalva - increase nasopharynx pressure by holding nose and breathing against a closed glottis (throat)
- Toynbee - swallowing with mouth and nose closed - good for ascent!
- Frenzel - Valsalva while contracting throat muscles with a closed glottis
- Lowry - Valsalva plus Toynbee - holding nose, gently trying to blow air out of nose while swallowing - easiest and best method!
- Edmonds - jutting jaw forward plus Valsalva and/or Frenzel (good method)
- Miscellaneous - swallowing, wiggling jaws - good for ascent!
Here is a link for interesting ear info:
http://faculty.washington.edu/ekay/MEbaro.html
Here is the link for the video I mentioned:
http://www.uwtv.org/programs/displayevent.asp?rid=789