If it's raining or there is ocean spray there may be water in your tank valve. Cracking the tank open for a 1/2 second will blow the water out so it doesn't get into your first stage. If this annoys someone then perhaps that person should either figure out a way to prevent water from ever entering a scuba tank that's sitting on a boat for a couple of hours, awaiting it's turn, or pay to have your regulator serviced/rebuilt because some of that may be salt water.
The quick blow of a valve doesn't annoy people its the constant blowing of air on caps and 1st stages that does.
Most dive Op's I've know put a bit of tape over the valve of a full tank to keep it clean and indicate its unused too - so there's a solution.
The 20 minuter soak and swish routine is good but I would recommend that if you are going to soak your regs that you do so with them attached to your tank with the air on. It prevents the possibility of water intrusion in the 1st stage.
With your cap on the air in the hoses will stop water entering the first stage. even if you purge your reg underwater when washing, water isn't going to get to the first stage - not without significant effort.
There seems to be a lot of kid glove treatment recommended which is overkill Dive gear is pretty resiliant. My gear gets used on open boats in all conditions. It gets changed from tank to tank without drying my hands nor the regs. And in my short sample of 5 years and 700 + dives has had no ill effects.
I get my regs serviced approx every 18 months or if the breathing feels odd or a few weeks before a trip with enough time for me to dive them a few times. Similarly with my wifes gear that has similar uses (we use AL, Apex and SP regs so a fair mix)
Never had issues on service other than the usual wear and tear and or environment of very hot and humid and a higher than normal salinity is pretty hard on kit of all types.
However there's nothing wrong with being extra cautious if you choose to be