I think that is a strange thing to say. Your computer does all the math and says you have entered into Deco, yet you don't consider that to be "real". I think that is a dangerous way to look at the situation and not the way it should be viewed by a person like the OP who is unfamiliar with the situation and is seeking guidance and perspective.
We have enough trouble with terminology where we already have "deco", "safety stop", "mandatory safety stop", "optional/recommended safety stop" and now you want to add to the mix a new term, the idea of "not real deco"?
I'm more simplistic in my thinking. Either you have a safety stop or a deco stop. Pick one, they are not the same, they may both be estimates based on theory, but the concepts ARE DIFFERENT.
Not that I am advocating that someone drastically modifies their subsequent diving that day, if they wander into deco for a few minutes (and clear it), but I would rather that the terminology be simpler and more easy to understand. Adding in all these "made up" adjectives doesn't help with the basic comprehension of the situation nor make things safer.
Let's try to get beyond the confusion of the words that are used and understand the reality of the situation. When you do this, you will see that vocabulary is the problem, because we keep trying to impose a binary way of thinking and speaking on a system that is not binary.
There is a big difference between what we typically call a decompression dive and what we typically call a NDL, no stop, or recreational dive. With a decompression dive, not only must you do a stop on the way up, your ascent rate matters. If you ascend too slowly or do stops that are too deep, you will pay a penalty by having to do an extended stop or stops in your later ascent. With a NDL (no stop, recreational, whatever) dive, once you begin your ascent, it doesn't seem to matter how slowly you ascend, as long as you don't take long enough to go into deco, and you don't have to do a final stop. The two are indeed very different.
The problem is that there is no bright line between the two. That means there is another type of dive, the fuzzy area in between the two, an area where the different physiology of different divers and the lack of full understanding of decompression science makes us unsure of what to say or do. We lack the vocabulary to describe such dives, and we lack the precision of procedures to deal with them. In that fuzzy realm we use terms like "mandatory optional safety stops," which means "OK, maybe you have strayed into decompression, so you really should do a decompression stop just in case."
We also have a situation where you have gone into decompression, but your decompression obligation is minimal. When a computer's algorithm decides you have gone into deco, it creates an ascent plan that should clear you to surface if you follow it. That plan includes two aspects: the rate at which you ascend and the stops you need to make. If you are in that fuzzy area, ascending at the computer's recommended rate may be all you need to do to clear your decompression obligation, and the computer will therefore no longer require a decompression stop. According to that algorithm, you were in decompression, and according to that algorithm, you completed your required decompression. You can then go on with life accordingly.