Catherine, it's a shame people aren't given more and better information about ear issues in OW, because this is quite simply one of the most frequent complaints that people have after their classes or their first few dives.
The fact is that, no matter WHAT the problem is that is making it difficult to equalize on descent (whether it's your anatomy, or congestion, or some other issue) it's going to cause problems coming back up, too. For many people, because of the physics of things, equalizing on ascent is easier than on descent (the Eustachian tube is being expanded by the expanding gas, rather than tending to collapse). But serious problems equalizing on descent should be a warning.
I don't know if you got a chance to watch Dr. Kay's video on the ear and diving, but it really is a must-see.
I think we've all been in the position of not being able to assess just how bad our ears are until we get in the water. But you learn not to push it -- if it takes more than a couple of tries to equalize, it's time to go have lunch and dive another day.
The fact is that, no matter WHAT the problem is that is making it difficult to equalize on descent (whether it's your anatomy, or congestion, or some other issue) it's going to cause problems coming back up, too. For many people, because of the physics of things, equalizing on ascent is easier than on descent (the Eustachian tube is being expanded by the expanding gas, rather than tending to collapse). But serious problems equalizing on descent should be a warning.
I don't know if you got a chance to watch Dr. Kay's video on the ear and diving, but it really is a must-see.
I think we've all been in the position of not being able to assess just how bad our ears are until we get in the water. But you learn not to push it -- if it takes more than a couple of tries to equalize, it's time to go have lunch and dive another day.