kpdivers mentioned heading over to the scuba connection ... may be a good idea since they can measure you up and assist you with ideas between different companies and price points ...
buying used is an option but keep in mind how important fit is
northeast scuba supply has a few suits left on the dive rite 905 clearance (small sizes) for $699 ... NO ON anywhere will beat that for a $2000 suit ...
as for whites, i know several people who have ordered whites and after they screwed up the cut of the suit multiple times, they canceled the order ...
as for BARE ... the newest HD trilam is the single MOST durable trilam to date and DUI can't touch the material (YET)
DUI are nice but if you are the type of person who needs to pay for the name than great, if not, than why bother?
Mike at DIVERIGHTIN is VERY helpful ... but if you are in NY, how are you going to get FIT correctly?
i have no problem reminding you that these are my opinions only and others will agree or disagree, i only speak from my experience and my friends expereince.