Stacy,
Which tanks are best are going to depend on a number of factors, that not only include how comfortable they are for you out of the water but also how they trim you out IN the water! How much they hold may be moot, assuming that if you're considering two or three sets, they'll all hold roughly the same - within 14-20 cu ft. For example, consider these:
(new) HP Steel 72 Cu. Ft. mfg. by Faber 3300 Psi. ---- $208 + $25 s/h
diameter = 6.75" length = 20.5" weight = 28.7 lbs.
buoyancy in salt water empty = -3.7 full = -8.4
Note that these 72s are filled to 3300 psi, versus the lower 2640 psi tanks below.
The Fabers are normally available on this site here:
http://divesales.com/tanks/index.html
Compare with the OMS sets on this site here, particularly look at the C66:
http://www.omsdive.com/cylinder.html
The Faber 72s are 20.5 in length (height), whereas a set of the OMS C66 would stand 21 in height (length), both without valve measurements, per this page here:
http://www.omsdive.com/cyl_spec.html
Note how the OMS 85s are 26 in height. Thats actually quite a difference in terms of how they would feel to you and balance out (trim) in the water.
The PST E7-80 tanks would be 7.3 in diameter, a little larger but not the fat ones at 8, and are only 19.75 in height (length), making them the shortest of the three sets of doubles, per this site here:
http://www.lloydbaileysscuba.com/PST E Series Tanks.htm
While I'm partial to PST steels, Im of the opinion that you might want to take a look at a set of the older low pressure steel 72s. They are skinnier and a bit longer than 20", which can work out better for adjusting your trim, they are a tad lighter than the newer tanks, and best of all, you can find a set of them used with bands and manifold for around $300 and sometimes less depending on who you know!
The older LP steel 72s actually only hold 65 cu ft at their rated pressure, you have to fill them to their allowable 10% overfill to hit 72 cu ft. In a set of doubles, however, were talking a difference between the two of about 14 cu ft of gas, which assuming youre doing your gas planning properly is a negligible difference. In terms of cost efficiency, I think these would be your best bet if you can find a set of them. And being 4'10", I'll bet your SAC rate is much better than most of the people you're going to be diving with as buddies! A set of smaller doubles might be exactly what you will feel most comfortable with. (Have you ever looked at a set of aluminum 50s? I think they would also be perfect for you...)
Hope this helps,
Doc